Having tried all three, its a stark difference in how much more social Lemmy is comparatively. Its not even close. Almost all posts I’ve encountered on lemmy have interaction; whereas, more often than not, posts on the other two platforms have no interaction. Wonder what the driving factor is behind this difference?

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    Lemmy is discussion focused, the bulk of content is the comments guided by posts. Mastadon/nostr are about microblogging, the posts are the focus of content, not the comments.

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      you are missing out. Which is much worse than just being wrong.

      The focus of mastodon is on the people, not the comments.

      Deeply care about the other person and then you’ll be interacting with someone you admire

      The comments are topics they find interesting and want to share.

      With coders, when they post something, is usually mostly signal.

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    I left reddit for lemmy on the big migration but I though it wouldn’t last. Here I am years after. I enjoy lemmy a lot more than I ever did Reddit.

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    Why are you comparing apples to glass bowls?

    Lemmy is a reddit clone, where you create communities.
    Mastodon is a Twitter clone, where you share what you ate last night or what political meme you like today while sharing photos of moss and/or windows.
    Nostr is its own thing.

    You can’t really compare them with each other.

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      Yeah, I get your point. But the question still remains. Lemmy objectively has more engagement/interaction regardless of the category of social media of each medium.

      If you compare X to Lemmy, X has more engagement/interaction… And they are separate social media platforms categorically. Yet, Mastodon trumps Lemmy’s user count by nearly 10 fold…

      It stands to question that with a fraction of the users on Lemmy, why is the interaction/engagement considerably higher?

      Mastodon User Count Lemmy User Count

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        An average post on Mastodon/X/Bluesky/Threads is “this is what I encounter” or “this is what I believe”. Those kinds of posts don’t specifically ask for a response. You can respond to it, but it doesn’t require one.

        That’s not how you communicate on Lemmy or Reddit.

        That’s the difference.

        Each platform has its own usages.

        So to compare and say “well platform Y is more social, because there’s more interaction than on platform 2” is a bit weird.

        You wouldn’t compare a letter with a message board on a town plaza either. Both can be used to communicate, but they’re not comparable to each other.

        Or in another way:
        On Mastodon or Nostr, when you post something only a small subsection of the userbase actually sees it (only those who follow you, those that follow any of the hashtags that you used, or those that check the full firehose).
        On Lemmy the entire community you posted it to can see your post.
        Obviously you can get more response on Lemmy! More people get to see it.

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        It stands to question that with a fraction of the users on Lemmy, why is the interaction/engagement considerably higher?

        mastodon is another “general interest” social media hub along the same vein of reddit or bluesky or .world or .ee, which means that (excluding its founding group) it takes many forms of long term investments to gain sufficient traction enough to establish a core group of active users (assuming that it ever succeeds at doing so at all) and that core group is a small fraction of its user base (presuming that a reddit post i saw years ago showing that a tiny fraction of users on social media are responsible for a vastly disproportionate amount of content on all platforms is true).

        lemmy’s political origins pre-included the identities and accompanying pre-built core groups that had already start coalescing in other social media platforms like reddit & tiktok. by the time of the reddit blackout protests those groups already had new online safe spaces in various lemmy instances and their ranks swelled at the same time other reddit users started to fill the ranks of other “general interest” instances like .world and later .ee

        that link you posted on lemmy user counts reflects the “general interest” instance’s difficulties of retaining a core group of active users that disproportionately create the most content. it’s around this content is where you will find the interaction/engagement that characterizes lemmy’s considerably higher engagement; instead of the news & link sharing lower interaction/engagement that characterizes the “general interest” instances.

        right now; the “general interest” instances have a relatively handful of VERY prolific users expending a clearly excessive amount of time and effort at creating a sea of inactive communities & instances in the hopes that it might eventually serve as a basis for a “general interest” core group and i hope that they succeed; i think that the lemmyverse would be better with politically moderate points of view and i’m sure that the “general interest” instances won’t lose all of their users to bluesky, threads, nostr, etc. by then.

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      i care about other people, specifically coders. They are my rock stars. And that’s who i want to keep in touch with.

      On mastodon, if have something up your sleeve others want to have access to you. I get access to certified, cuz whats that, geniuses. They have the repos, source code, and unittests to prove it!

      On lemmy, not so much.

      Or riddle me this, how to build relationships on lemmy?

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      Then to get something out the opportunities the universe is gifting you, all you have to do is turn on that empathy switch and adjust the level up to max.

      The issue is all in your head.

      You are surrounded by giants, but you don’t notice or care.

      Force yourself to care.

      Find someone tomorrow and magically decide they are now the most important person in your universe moving forward. And you want to keep in touch with them regularly. And you find what they are up to thrilling.

      Then type in this url

      github.com

      This will be enough to fill your entire lifetime and then some.

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    I find microblogging format isn’t really great for having any sort of meaningful discussion. Mastodon is good for posting news or memes, but that’s about it. Lemmy format allows having an actual dialogue, and that makes it a lot more engaging.

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      mastodon is awesome if you actually can bring yourself to want to interact with a real person.

      If you can’t get anything out of mastodon you cannot get anything out of interacting with another human being.

      Find someone to care about. Force yourself to care about them.

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      Lemmy format allows having an actual dialogue

      It’s great for seeing existing dialogue, but I think it falls short for long term discussion between more than two people.

      On a non-threaded board (e.g. forums, github issues) you can watch a thread you’re interested in. On Lemmy/reddit you only get notifications for direct responses to your comments.

      I think some sort of option to watch/unwatch whole subtrees of comments would help a lot.

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        I haven’t thought of that, but that’s actually a neat idea. You’re right that Lemmy format works best for two people having a discussion, and it becomes messy to track larger conversations with more people. What often ends up happening is that the person who made the original top level comment ends up having many separate conversations with different people.

        I haven’t actually seen a good way to represent discussions between a group of people now that I think of it. Having watch functionality helps you know when replies show up, but it would be neat if different people replying could also be aware of what they’re all saying.

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    Mastodon & others are microblogging (aka shitposting) platforms, while lemmy lets you ask questions in posts that will persist (not get flooded under a megaton of shitpost, hentai) and get answers.

    On mastodon what’s important is who you are (who you know, who you can interact with), on lemmy your post’s content is more important.

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      On Mastodon, follow and interact with people you admire, not content.

      Go to pypi look for packages you admire, find their maintainers, and get chatting with them. Coders make themselves available on mastodon. Not lemmy. Not twitter. Email is passe.

      Do a survey. Look up 20 random packages you admire on pypi. What contact info do they provide? These packages must be actively maintained. Otherwise understand if dinosaurs in the past communicated thru mostly hand gestures and grunting.

      Published coders are the richest resource of talent in the history of mankind.

      Lemmy … asking questions?! Is that it?

      There is more to interacting and collaboration than hit and run knowledge sharing.

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    mastodon is like an oasis in a sea of noise.

    Concentrate on the signal, not the noise.

    Build relationships with people you care about.

    The problem with mastodon might turn out to be having a heart lacking in empathy. Need to be able to care enough to want to be associated with someone you admire.

    We live amongst rock stars. How can anyone completely miss that?! The problem is neither the platform nor the rock stars.

    Don’t need a sea of people. Need 10 or 5 or 3. As long as they are rock stars. I count my blessings daily.

    It’s clearly how approach to using mastodon. Small tweak to your mindset and you can get alot out of the platform.

    Dial up a super hero and tell them they are awesome.

    Go to pypi

    Find packages you like and their maintainers.

    Hook up with them and tell them they are awesome, but found a few things that doesn’t make sense in the docs. Whatever the approach. You are in!

    Do it now.

    It’ll take all of 5 mins.

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    Hey, just to drive some more social interaction, what’s your favorite color? Mine’s a mix of aqua and turquoise.