What is the best way to react, if someone calls you a degenerate? Just leave them, remembering the insult?

This type of insult targets disabled people specifically?

  • Cowbee [he/they]@lemmy.ml
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    2 days ago

    They’re probably far-right, which is why you find people in Nazi bars like MeanwhileOnGrad using it frequently: (credit to @Diva@lemmy.ml )

    CW

    Funny enough, lemmings.world shut down because this prediction was wrong, the communists are here to stay.

    In that sense, I’d react similarly to whenever a fascist, Zionist, etc. starts attacking me. None of their points hold any water, so just point that out.

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      3 days ago

      Yeah, I’ve never heard of it being used to target people with disabilities (although looking it up, I see it can be used that way, TIL) - I’ve only ever thought of it as a judgement on character/behaviour. Like I’d have no issue with anyone describing Trump as a degenerate, because he’s a sick, twisted, vindictive, corrupt prick.

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    If thrown out sincerely, or with real vitriol, avoid. It’s pretty dehumanizing in such a sense.

    But if it’s was a friend teasing you then that’s something else, just throw some insult back at them.

  • Diva (she/her)@lemmy.ml
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    If it’s not being used ironically or self deprecatingly I generally assume the person in question is a fash or some sort of right winger

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    3 days ago

    No decent person would use the word degenerate. Just don’t interact if you can

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      I may not be a decent person, but I do have a discord channel called The Department of Degeneracy where we post dark, spicy, and doomer memes that would make grandma gasp and clutch her pearls.

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    When I was young I was bullied every single day. For the longest time It bothered me. Then one day something changed, I stopped caring. People would throw out insults and jokes and I just dissociate myself. I’d hear it and if it was at all funny I’d laugh. After about a month I was entirely left alone. Those people were never nice to me and never showed me respect. But the fact they got 0 rise at me meant they got bored.

    So I’d suggest to anyone to not take whatever personally and just shrug it off. Eventually in my experience it stops !

    I will say this may not work for everyone. And for some this may just escalate to even more horrible things. But it might be worth a shot ? And obviously change course if things go south …