Ideally something you can do with the same people every week so you get to know each other.
am go to community garden
tennis, bit of a learning curve though
I dunno, I tried it and there were a lot of competitive assholes.
Sounds like sports in general.
Gangbang
This can mean two very different activities, lol.
Imagine showing up dressed for the wrong one!
I dunno, I feel like a gimp suit is multipurpose.
Take a class in something random that interests you. Talk to the people in the class.
Suggestions:
- glass blowing
- cooking
- leather making
- pottery
- painting
- scuba diving
Side bonus is maybe you discover a new hobby that brings you joy.
The other ones sound reasonable, except the last. It seems like a big jump. Don’t get me wrong, scuba diving is fun. I’d say go for a lesson and see if you want to continue, it may not be for you. It can also get expensive.
Not much chatting during scuba either.
I’ve met a ton of friends scuba diving, that’s why I included it.
Sure you can’t talk while you’re diving, but that makes the conversation between dives more interesting. Lots of people passionately comparing and talking about what they saw. You’re probably stuck on a boat together during your surface interval, so naturally you get to know people.
Also sometimes it’s nice to just do an activity without people talking constantly.
Leather making sounds interesting. Take the hide, process it. Tanning? Not sure. Gruesome and a rewarding final result.
They probably meant leather working / crafting like making wallets and stuff.
Yeah I did
Board games at a local game store. Many will have a board game night.
Hmm. Might need to check out a local game store.
Tagging onto this: there’s tons of games to play that have regular tournaments. I run Warhammer 40k tournaments for my local store, and while you occasionally get tryhards that are less fun, the overwhelming majority of the community just feels like a bunch of people getting together to play plastic soldiers for a day. The new Disney game Lorcana is taking off, and there’s tons of different tabletop games besides just board games to try at a local store!
Team sports. Play weekly then go out for food/drinks together after.
I haven’t found any I’ve been successful at, but the closest I’ve come is going to the movie theater.
Rock climbing isn’t my thing, but I helped out today taking some pictures at one and wow… there are a lot of people at those. People need belayers and it just had a generally friendly atmosphere. Plus you get exercise. If I was in need of friends and liked rock climbing, I’d definitely be going there more often.
I have bouldered for a few years and will agree with the friendly atmosphere.
If you’re into history, HEMA (Historical European Martial Arts), medieval reenactment and SCA are all very approachable and friendly people. They are not cheap hobbies though.
Alternatively, board game nights and Dungeons & Dragons are cheaper and also lits of fun. Check your local board games store
Hiking and gym. Both communities are pretty friendly and they might even overlap. Gym, I’ve noticed some places you can walk in, they don’t even need to check your card (I go with my friend and sometimes they don’t even ask for his card).
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Do you play an instrument? Do you want to? Musicians are super friendly and welcoming, if that interests you.
Mountain biking. Especially if you have a local organization for trail management. They’re almost always looking for volunteers.
You’ll have the biking, being active outdoors, some hiking for trail management, typically some fund raising events, bike maintenance/repair workshops, community rides and potentially more depending on the size of the group.
Good variety of activity from solo riding to big social gatherings. And I’ve found it a much more chill group of people than road bikers. And it doesn’t really require the super expensive $2k+ bikes some people opt for. My current ride is at about $700 all in and does everything I need it to do.
Ever play a TTRPG? Give it a try, if you live in an actual civilized place you probably have a local game store and they almost certainly host games. If you live in absolute nowhere like me you could probably find local groups online. And to be clear I’m not talking about dungeons and dragons, despite what people say the ruleset isn’t new player friendly (it’s complicated, the books are poorly edited, missing rules, it’s expensive, etc. etc.).
Try out World (or Chronicles) of Darkness, at a base level they are easier to understand than any other ttrpg i have ever played (with lots of room to get more out there as you play) and it’s got a large community (as far as niche hobbies go). Oh and it’s cheap, Chronicles is best about respecting your money, but generally you only need to buy a single book (the rulebook for the creature you are playing as).
Pathfinder is also a good choice as the second most popular ttrpg and they offer their rules for free online. the second edition is simpler but it does front load a lot of information on you at once (which is a good thing, you won’t have to go looking for edge case rules that don’t exist). First edition is also really good, but it’s more complicated and you might be less likely to find games since the second edition came out.
War gaming could also be a good way to meet people, but i don’t do that as much so i have less recommendations to offer, I’m afraid.
