• Delphia@lemmy.world
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      3 months ago

      Even if you arent good at improv “Thats a good question! I’m not sure, we should look that up!” Is an easy go-to.

      Then after shower and get into bed we look up todays questions.

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    First off, weird to point out that they’re “age appropriate”

    If your kid reads above the age level and understands it that’s generally a good thing

    Number two I don’t get why this is such a weird concept on how to explain things to a child. Seems pretty normal and “age appropriate”

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      Not only that, it’d be better to ask the kid why oxygen tanks are needed on spacecraft, then ask why we don’t need them here on earth.

      It’s a weird post, in general.

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      Yep. I was reading at a 6th grade level in 1st grade, and had advanced to university level comprehension by 5th grade. WTF was an “age appropriate book?”

      I’m pretty sure that those people would have been incensed, if they knew that I chose TLotR as my 1st grade book report. (This was in 1985, so while there was an animated movie, it didn’t cover the entire three books, so I had to read them.)

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        I assumed age appropriate was regarding content not difficulty. It is still a weird thing to emphasize though.

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          They undoubtedly wouldn’t approve of the content of some of the books I was reading back then either. I had already learned the extremely broad strokes around sex and reproduction by the first grade. My parents have a farm with livestock. I was also reading computer manuals learning how to be a greyhat, before the term even existed.

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          It always strikes me regarding the mental gymnastics people engage in regarding consumption of entertainment. Violent video games*, even if it’s cartoon violence, tv and movies are everywhere. But people clutch their pearls if it’s in a book format. The world is ending if it’s sexual. Hell, Utah just banned Judy Blume books.

          *I’m not condemning video games, study after study has proven that violence in games doesn’t lead to violent behavior, just that we find violence in games acceptable vs people losing their shit over a girl getting her period in a book for YA’s.

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            Technically only one Judy Bloom book, but your point still stands and I agree. It’s pretty bizarre.

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    So, where do I find this dad, as opposed to, “Dunno, ask yer mom, and fetch me a bud light coors.”?

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      I was both of those dads.

      “Go get me a beer and let’s figure out the answer to your question!”

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      We don’t do that.

      My kid is twenty three years old. I raised her alone. Crazy, I know, but she and I are pretty close.

      To this day, I get dozens of adulating text messages on mother’s Day for “playing both roles.”

      On Father’s Day, total utter crickets except from my daughter herself.

      Fathers are here to donate sperm and fund other lives. That’s it.