• lugal@lemmy.ml
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    7 months ago

    Jokes aside, maybe OOP didn’t cite their sources correctly. There is no bigger turnoff, especially on your first date. My mom used to say know your facts and have your sources handy. Best dating advice and honestly the only one that really matters

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      7 months ago

      I told my wife that from a genetic standpoint starfish are disembodied heads crawling across the seafloor on their mouth, and she was so squicked out that she left the room… Which was, in fairness, my intent, so, uh… mission accomplished?

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      7 months ago

      Seems a bit weird that every culture would call them some variant of “stars” since they don’t look like actual stars. Actual stars are just dots.

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          7 months ago

          For clarification, the lines are caused by the mirrors’ edges, and the cross hatch pattern common on street lamps in pictures comes from a filter (or scratched lenses/other filters.)

          With your normal eyeballs, it comes from defects like cataracts.

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            7 months ago

            You don’t need defects in your eyes to see it. All you need to do is to close your eyes slightly and look through your eyelashes. The light refracts on the lashes and creates a star-like pattern.

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        7 months ago

        They particularly look like diffraction spikes/starbursts.

        Astigmatism, cataracts, glaucoma or smudged glasses can cause you to see starbursts when you look at bright lights at night.

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      7 months ago

      I’m not nerdy about fish. But I am nerdy about people who are nerdy.

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    7 months ago

    Talk living fossils to me and I’ll do anything you want baby.

    You tell me about cryptids and you can just take me right there on the table.

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    7 months ago

    Man getting lengthy lectures from a woman, and here I am talking to myself. What is wrong with some people? Not me; I know what’s wrong with me.

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    7 months ago

    I wonder if this is what it’s like dating Lindsay Nikole.

    For the record, she’s one of my favorite YouTubers.

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    7 months ago

    Neurodivergent person shares one special interest, neurotypical tells you everything you need to know about them.

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    7 months ago

    maybe he was vegetarian and would have wanted to hear more about sea"cucumber" instead of fishy things.

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    7 months ago

    Looking at the post at face value, and joke aside, it sounds that it was a one way conversation for 30+ minutes, non-stop.

    Esoteric knowledge can be interesting. A sure sell selling point about you to a stranger on a first meeting it ain’t.

    “Hi, how are you? …Good? Great. Let me go on for 30min on a topic you may care or not about and do so uninterrupted, and if you don’t like it, I will make a quippy post online about it, okay? Like, for sure people will take my side. Win/win.”

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      7 months ago

      Honestly, I love it when people start geeking out. It’s fun, and usually i learn something new.

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        7 months ago

        Same as long as this isn’t the only thing they do. I work with a guy that loves to talk about his passions and it’s awesome for like thirty minutes. Then it’s alright for another 15-20. After that it starts to drag and I begin to feel the weight of my mounting unfinished tasks.

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      7 months ago

      Tbh if someone talked off the bat about their passion itd make me a lot more likely to want to date them. I want people to talk about what interests them and with most people it feels like pulling teeth trying to get them to do that.

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      7 months ago

      I don’t think this post is meant as quippy, but rather self-deprecating. She only realized afterwards that she talked a little too much…