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CraigOhMyEggo@lemmy.ml to Asklemmy@lemmy.ml · 5 months ago

When a conflict you are an observer to is so nuanced with so many changing "sides" that you have trouble knowing how to align, what tiebreakers do you use to determine who best to side with?

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When a conflict you are an observer to is so nuanced with so many changing "sides" that you have trouble knowing how to align, what tiebreakers do you use to determine who best to side with?

CraigOhMyEggo@lemmy.ml to Asklemmy@lemmy.ml · 5 months ago
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  • iii@mander.xyz
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    5 months ago

    Option 3: I remember I don’t have to take sides?

  • mrcleanup@lemmy.world
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    Look for kindness. Look for a group trying to build something for others, not just tear something down or personal gain.

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    “Does this have anything to do with me?”

    Most cases, the answer is no and I simply have to not care about it.

  • los_chill@programming.dev
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    Kindness > assholes usually works for me if I can’t take the time to learn all the nuances but feel like I want to form an opinion.

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    I just ignore it until either things become clear or it blows over

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