• tan00k@lemmy.world
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    9 months ago

    You can’t gatekeep being nonbinary. Not unless you’re prepared to define it explicitly, which will exclude many people - and not everyone will agree with your definition either.

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      9 months ago

      I said just because. Not that effeminate men aren’t capable of being nonbinary, merely that it is not sufficient (or necessary for that matter). You have to like actually not identify as entirely a man.

      But it’s not my place to fight I’m very much in the binary side of transness.

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        9 months ago

        Whose authority says it’s not sufficient? If they say they are nonbinary, they are nonbinary.