When they need you: they come over to your place, share a meal and a good time.
When you need them: You sit alone at home, not making any effort to reach out and not going to their house like they did yours, instead stewing in your own bitterness.
This is some 10th grade level pessimism
You never know unless you ask. And if no one ever helps, look for new friends/family.
Late ‘00s Facebook is leaking
Sometimes helping someone without expecting anything is best, I’ve been betrayed & abandoned by most of my friends that I’ve helped when I’m still in top condition.
Nowadays although I’ve fallen into miserable lives, I’m still helping someone as best as i could because that’s how i am & no one can change it2nd picture, the boys are out buying your groceries and doing your laundry for you so you can take a break
Be detached from the fruit of your actions and you will not suffer disappointment.