Napain@lemmy.ml to Memes@lemmy.ml · 2 years agocouldn't be melemmy.mlimagemessage-square21fedilinkarrow-up1345arrow-down139file-text
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minus-squareZachariah@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up38arrow-down7·2 years ago“I don’t want to sleep with you.” is often “I don’t want you to exist.”
minus-squareRepple (she/her)@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up30arrow-down1·2 years agoSometimes it’s “I want to sleep with you, but I don’t want to want to sleep with you.”
minus-squareTheLowestStone@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up22·2 years agoOr “I want to sleep with you but I’d rather you die than have anyone find out.”
minus-squareTrickDacy@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up2arrow-down1·2 years agoWell there isn’t an inherent connection between those two ideas. So I take it you’re looking for reasons to be suspicious
minus-squareMango@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up1arrow-down2·2 years agoNot from me it isn’t! I need someone to explain the male gaze thing to me better than the last person did. They made it sound like it’s bad to like what’s good.
“I don’t want to sleep with you.”
is often
“I don’t want you to exist.”
Sometimes it’s “I want to sleep with you, but I don’t want to want to sleep with you.”
Or “I want to sleep with you but I’d rather you die than have anyone find out.”
Well there isn’t an inherent connection between those two ideas. So I take it you’re looking for reasons to be suspicious
Not from me it isn’t!
I need someone to explain the male gaze thing to me better than the last person did. They made it sound like it’s bad to like what’s good.