My pet sitters husband is a trumpster. I worry about what he says to my pups.

I work in public education healthcare. A few people are using magic school or chatgpt to write goals and treatment notes, and then generate report cards. The only discussion has been these people doing brief demonstrations in department meetings.

My mom adopted a very sweet cat from a shelter. Within two weeks we learned that she was sick, barely eating and losing weight. She passed on my mom’s lap within a month of adoption. We assume she was dropped at the animal shelter because the previous owner knew and didn’t want to deal with it. That seems so cruel- to put a sick animal through that process of shelter and adoption. I’m glad that we were able to give her care and love at the end but I’m still angry at the asshole who dumped her.

Every time you go to the vet it’s a few hundred dollars. Before you know it you’re in $2-3k and trying to do iv fluids at home on an 18 year old cat.

That’s how we learned that our girl had liver cancer. She was getting sick most days but looked like she was gaining weight. Imaging at the vet showed the tumors and fluid and she said we had a few weeks, maybe a month.

I’m so sorry for your loss.

With people it’s sometimes when you start morphine, knowing that it’s the beginning of the end. It’s the same- when they can’t really communicate and you know they’re uncomfortable, when you’re praying that they go in their sleep,…

These moments in life are so fucking hard. And the guilt in your heart hangs on even when your brain knows it’s the right and merciful things to do.

They say that by the time they let you see how bad it is, it’s past time. It’s impossible to know the exact right day, especially when you see the little perk ups, the tiny tail wags, laying in the sun,… We do the best we can. I’m sorry for your loss.

Thank you!

It’s merciful but it’s incredibly difficult. What would you want someone to do for you?

When you come home and your 20 year old dog is lying on the floor in a puddle of pee, poo, vomit, and blood and can’t get up it’s likely time (or past time) to help him go, but you’ll still feel terrible about it

When your blind dog with liver cancer is at the date your vet thought she would pass; she still lifts her ears and wags her tail a bit when you walk in, but she also can’t hold bowel or bladder, vomits most days, and has to get carried to the yard; and you put her down a few days before you have surgery knowing you won’t be able to clean the floor or carry her for a couple of weeks, you’ll feel guilty and selfish and like you killed your dog because she was an inconvenience even though everyone tells you it was the right thing to do.

The arrival date is a lie and there’s nothing you can do about it.

So many ways!

Independence from what?

I’m older, my kids are grown, and I’m kinda past caring what other people do and think. I have friends with kids who complain about how expensive it is to enroll kids in the activities that “everyone does.”

I usually start with one, but … 🤷

No, but as soon as I’m better i will be.

Shoe

Giving my boss access to email.

None of us do

We were busy answering calls about about extending our car warranty.

No one will get off their fucking phones and get moving!